Ep. 94 - Get the Ring Right: Budget, Stones and Why Every Guy Needs a Good Jeweler

You survived the first round—now it’s time for the next level of buying her a ring. In Part II, Andy and Carter Eve dive into the stuff most guys never ask: setting a real budget (without three-months-salary BS), the truth about lab-grown vs. natural diamonds, and why having a trusted jeweler is your secret weapon.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How to set a budget you won’t regret (and why it’s nobody’s business but yours)

• The pros and cons of lab-grown vs. natural diamonds—what actually matters, and what’s just hype

• How to redesign family rings without losing the sentimental value

• Why “character” and human touch beat perfection every time

• The real value of having a jeweler you trust—someone you can text, call, and rely on for life

Key Quotes from Carter:

“Never go into debt for an engagement ring. You can always upgrade down the road.”

“Lab-grown diamonds let you get the look you want for less—if that’s what matters to you.”

“Imperfect isn’t bad. That’s character. That’s what makes it yours.”

“Having a ‘jewelry guy’ (or girl) means you’ve always got someone in your corner.”

Why This Episode Matters for Guys Buying Rings:

If you want to avoid rookie mistakes, overspending, or getting lost in the lab vs. natural debate, this episode gives you the real-world answers:

• How to make heirlooms work for your fiancée’s style (without pissing off the family)

• How to get the best value—no matter your budget

• Why independent jewelers still matter in a world of big brands and online shopping

Carter’s Top Advice:

• Don’t let anyone pressure you—take your time and ask questions

• Admit what you don’t know and get educated

• Trust your gut: if you click with your jeweler, you’re in the right place

Who Is Carter Eve?

Carter Eve is a custom jeweler and goldsmith known for heirloom redesigns, value-driven sourcing, and a straight-shooter approach. She helps guys get the ring right—no hype, no pressure.

Resources Mentioned:

Carter Eve’s Instagram & email: @carterevejewelry and carterevesjewelry@gmail.com

Andy’s book: The Inappropriate Guide to Buying an Engagement Ring available on Amazon

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